Hi and Welcome! Thanks for posting, it's so good to hear of people coming out of that mind control! It's like waking up from a fog, isn't it?!? You're right on: there's a whole lot of pressure there on young people to conform, stop feeling, stop thinking, and just obey the washtowel society. Please keep us updated.
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Notes From Bethel Meeting
by mchll ini peruse this board almost everyday, but this is my first post.
can anyone give me a link to the thread that contains the notes from the most recent bethel meeting?
it would be greatly appreciated.
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Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit
I still LOVE:
Out of Africa
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Damn, just made my 500th post!
by Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit inwe've come a long way baby.. it's a beautiful thing.
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Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit
We've come a long way baby.
It's a beautiful thing.
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Question on fading
by ldrnomo inmy wife and i have been staying away from meetings for almost a year now and i was wondering what everyone thinks about taking the next step, which would be going to another kh out of the circuit the cong we went to is in and having the publisher cards sent there and then going for two or three times to the new cong and then just stop.
we are thinking that will give the elders an out because they can get rid of our inactive cards and the next cong won't know us that well so won't really care.. as a former elder and po, we are well known in the area we live so many in the area are wondering what's going on with us and if we go to another cong.
that might make them feel more settled.
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Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit
Hi. My husband and I did something similar: we just became inactive in AZ where we both grew up in the cult, have lots of family there. We moved to CO knowing 1 jw family very well, but we were able to fake out relatives back home for a while via email, all the while lying to jw friends in CO. It's easier on you to fade, I think, it let's you make your decision about the cult at your pace and on your terms. We found that we later needed to stop the madness--it was hard to maintain & necessary to end the charade: being true to yourself takes less energy and let's you grow.
Anyway you can get away, get away, and sort it all out later. Get busy making new friends/meet the neighbors as soon as you can. Best wishes. Please keep us updated.
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(((JWs: BE WARNED AGAINST THOSE WHO WARN AGAINST PEDOPHILES)))
by Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit inand not the pedophiles themselves.
.. i'm noticing a trend here: those who have spread the nbc video (etc) around to witnesses are getting slammed for talking about it.. are we more dangerous to jws for talking aboutthese child rapists than the child rapists actually are?
if jws' way of life is more important to them than the safety of their children, then the answer is yes.
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Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit
and not the pedophiles themselves. . .
I'm noticing a trend here: those who have spread the NBC video (etc) around to witnesses are getting slammed for talking about it.
Are we more dangerous to JWs for talking aboutthese child rapists than the child rapists actually are? If JWs' way of life is more important to them than the safety of their children, then the answer is yes.
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This time, I'm REALLY leaving..............................
by Warlock ini'm really sick and tired.. yes, sick and tired of the weirdos, sickos, the mentally ill that need to be institutionalized for their own good, the homeless, the beggars, the drug addicts, the free clinic waiting rooms full of sick people who could be carrying tb and the like.. so i quit my job, and i'm starting a new one tomorrow.
i'm leaving one job for another.. actually, seeing all those things was too painful after a while.. what, you think i was leaving jwd?.
warlock .
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Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit
Hey we're in the same field--car sales!
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Disgusted individual Elders
by 5thGeneration inyou'd think over the years that there must have been some good-hearted righteous elders disgusted enough to disobey the society and anonymously contact the authorities .. i would have and i know elders now that would!.
just wondering out loud!.
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Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit
I don't know what my elder dad would do, unfortunately, I really don't.
horrible life--that's terrible about how your sister's situation was handled differently.
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Who dirtied God's name the most ?
by JH input yourself in a jw frame of mind for a moment..... lets see now, who dirtied god's name most, the jw pedofiles, the watchtower sweeping this under the carpet, or jwd exposing this ?.
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Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit
I like your logic. . .let's see was it. . . JWs????
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Our grandfather died a week ago- guess why we didn't know.
by professor inmy sister and i who are disfellowshipped have a jw elder as a father.
guess why mom and dad didn't tell us that our grandfather died a week ago?
thanks watchtower for denying us our grandfather's funeral.
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Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit
Aw damn them. I'm so sorry for your loss on a few different levels.
Hugs to you.
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A reason to be thankful: Closer To Fine by the Indigo Girls
by Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit inhttp://rhaplinks.real.com/rhaplink?rhapid=3993653&type=playlist&title=playlist&from=real.
hope it opens.
.. happy tg!!
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Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit
http://rhaplinks.real.com/rhaplink?rhapid=3993653&type=playlist&title=Playlist&from=real
hope it opens. . .
Happy TG!!!